How To Let Your Kids Go……

The waves of redemption from his nine months gone…hadn’t even hit me yet. The shock.  That his face. Was in more than my thoughts. But a bed.  Tucked tight with the retribution.  That I am whole again. Son.  Finally home. Serving. Philippines. And helping.  Earthquake.  Landslides.  Victims. People flooded with a desperate pleading… Son answering.  The […]

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Why You Can’t Just Sit On The Sidelines

Today is orphan Sunday. Do you remember when YOU were an orphan? Before you met Christ?  When you walked in darkness?  Without hope or a family? I do.   And it makes me rejoice even more that I am adopted into the Kingdom of God!  All glory be to our precious Savior!   So, please, celebrate […]

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On The Edge Of Faith. Afraid to Jump. Where Our Foster Daughter Finds Jesus.

She sits on the edge of diving.  Diving into a world foreign to what she knows.  She waits.  Hesitates.  Wants to know…. Is it real? Will this hurt me? Can I really be….something other than what I have been being? And I see the war.  So tangible. Waking me in sleeping hours, to help her fight […]

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One Minute Can Change Everything!

One minute.  Crowds cheering. Daughter rides peering.  Sitting on a convertible.  Waving to the crowds. Homecoming.  Princess. A little more than twelve hours later.  8: 50 a.m. in the morning.  Driving to Jazz Choir.  To sing the National Anthem. Turns out onto a busy street.  Gets swiped by a large truck.  Spins wildly. Out of control. […]

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Raising Radical Kids in an Increasingly Complacent World.

I don’t know what came over her.  Like a seed, lying dormant.  Coming alive.  In that in-between.  Child exiting to women-hood. This morning.  Not speaking.  Her silence.  Deafening. Like the white page I look at.  Before typing. Pure.  Barren.  Sacred.  Holy. Careful, so as not to stain a page….Waiting for answers. And why is…. Wonder always […]

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When the World DOES See color. And Transracial Adoption

I would love to think the world is a painting. Blended together with strokes of grace. Intertwined with a great array of flavor. Each pallet magnificently complimenting the other… But it just isn’t so. We are not a mixing bowl…as I would like to think…. Adoption has taught me. My youngest, African American daughter, exposed…to people, […]

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